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From: Carlos Xuma <carlosxuma@alphaconfidence.com>
Date: Thu, Feb 14, 2013 at 3:50 AM
Subject: The Potato Girl Routine
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From: Carlos Xuma <carlosxuma@alphaconfidence.com>
Date: Thu, Feb 14, 2013 at 3:50 AM
Subject: The Potato Girl Routine
Hey, it's Carlos Xuma
I wanted to introduce you to one of my top
coaches that you're going to hear a lot more
from this year. His name is Fiorino (yeah, an
I-talian, like me...)
We sometimes call him the "F-bomb."
Sometimes we just say "F-time!"
You see, Fiorino is...
Well, let me have HIM tell you, as he
gives you his "Potato Girl" routine.
Take it away, Fiorino...!
______________________
Thanks, Carlos!
And HELLO Alpha Men...
I'll be sending you reminders and special
notices from the home of the "Alpha Man," as
well as some kickass tips of my own.
(Edgy stuff that Carlos thinks I should talk
about with you guys... shhhh....)
You might even find out more about my
"F-bomb" nickname. :)
Today I want to give you a quick opener that
you can use whenever you see a group of women
that you want to meet.
(Or if you only want to meet ONE of them... )
It's what I call the "Potato Girl Routine."
Most guys are afraid to walk up to groups
of women because they're afraid of the
social embarrassment they would feel if they
get "shot down."
F*** that!
(F bomb #1)
The fact is that women in groups are easier
because they don't want to look rude in front
of their friends. So that's something you can use
to your advantage...
First of all, remember that a group of women
have already decided their "group state" or how
they will respond by the time you get to them.
It's something that they do by consensus, without
even talking about it.
So you can launch your chances 100% just by
listening to what they're chatting about as
you're walking up.
Anyhowwwww....
Here's one opener that works like a f*****
champ for me every time:
"Are any of you from Idaho..?"
They will answer either "No," or "Why do you
want to know?"
If they say NO, you just answer:
"GOOD! My last girlfriend was from Idaho, and
I vowed never to date a Potato Girl from that state
again."
If they say WHY (instead of "NO), you just answer:
"My last girlfriend was from Idaho. Are you
from Idaho? Are you a Potato Girl?"
(You need to persist and get them to answer you.
If you don't, you're failing a social proof
test that they will pick up on. Your frame has
to always appear stronger than theirs...)
And then after they tell you NO, you can
just finish with: "I vowed to never date a
chick from that state again..."
IF you get a "YES" from one of the girls
(rare, but it can happen occasionally),
ask her if she's a "potato girl."
She'll either say no or make a face, and
you just say: "Good, thought so. You're
cool."
And then you bridge right into another
question about what got them all out
together, etc. etc.
Believe it or not, that simple little
Potato Girl Routine has gotten me talking
with so many girls.
Not because it's incredibly witty or even
clever...
It's because it's just *different* enough to
blow past a lot of their defenses.
Remember, you don't want your openers to be
all that complicated or interesting, or
you're just setting up a frame where she
thinks you think the conversation is a big
deal.
Your attitude should always communicate that
chatting up other people is just an everyday
thing. Nuthin' big.
Hope this gets you into a good approach this
week...
Send me your comments and stories about how
it went for you...
Meet women, make happy...
Stay Alpha...!
I wanted to introduce you to one of my top
coaches that you're going to hear a lot more
from this year. His name is Fiorino (yeah, an
I-talian, like me...)
We sometimes call him the "F-bomb."
Sometimes we just say "F-time!"
You see, Fiorino is...
Well, let me have HIM tell you, as he
gives you his "Potato Girl" routine.
Take it away, Fiorino...!
______________________
Thanks, Carlos!
And HELLO Alpha Men...
I'll be sending you reminders and special
notices from the home of the "Alpha Man," as
well as some kickass tips of my own.
(Edgy stuff that Carlos thinks I should talk
about with you guys... shhhh....)
You might even find out more about my
"F-bomb" nickname. :)
Today I want to give you a quick opener that
you can use whenever you see a group of women
that you want to meet.
(Or if you only want to meet ONE of them... )
It's what I call the "Potato Girl Routine."
Most guys are afraid to walk up to groups
of women because they're afraid of the
social embarrassment they would feel if they
get "shot down."
F*** that!
(F bomb #1)
The fact is that women in groups are easier
because they don't want to look rude in front
of their friends. So that's something you can use
to your advantage...
First of all, remember that a group of women
have already decided their "group state" or how
they will respond by the time you get to them.
It's something that they do by consensus, without
even talking about it.
So you can launch your chances 100% just by
listening to what they're chatting about as
you're walking up.
Anyhowwwww....
Here's one opener that works like a f*****
champ for me every time:
"Are any of you from Idaho..?"
They will answer either "No," or "Why do you
want to know?"
If they say NO, you just answer:
"GOOD! My last girlfriend was from Idaho, and
I vowed never to date a Potato Girl from that state
again."
If they say WHY (instead of "NO), you just answer:
"My last girlfriend was from Idaho. Are you
from Idaho? Are you a Potato Girl?"
(You need to persist and get them to answer you.
If you don't, you're failing a social proof
test that they will pick up on. Your frame has
to always appear stronger than theirs...)
And then after they tell you NO, you can
just finish with: "I vowed to never date a
chick from that state again..."
IF you get a "YES" from one of the girls
(rare, but it can happen occasionally),
ask her if she's a "potato girl."
She'll either say no or make a face, and
you just say: "Good, thought so. You're
cool."
And then you bridge right into another
question about what got them all out
together, etc. etc.
Believe it or not, that simple little
Potato Girl Routine has gotten me talking
with so many girls.
Not because it's incredibly witty or even
clever...
It's because it's just *different* enough to
blow past a lot of their defenses.
Remember, you don't want your openers to be
all that complicated or interesting, or
you're just setting up a frame where she
thinks you think the conversation is a big
deal.
Your attitude should always communicate that
chatting up other people is just an everyday
thing. Nuthin' big.
Hope this gets you into a good approach this
week...
Send me your comments and stories about how
it went for you...
Meet women, make happy...
Stay Alpha...!
- Fiorino ("It's F-Time")
Carlos Xuma's Alpha Lifestyle Coach
PS: Not selling anything today.
This newsletter is all about
YOU, baby... :)
.
Carlos Xuma's Alpha Lifestyle Coach
PS: Not selling anything today.
This newsletter is all about
YOU, baby... :)
.
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