How to stop women from flaking out on you...

From: Carlos Xuma |   Sun, Mar 17, 2013 at 10:49 AM
Subject: How to stop women from flaking out on you...


Have you ever had a woman flake out on
you?

I hated it when it happened to me. I bet
you do, too.

Would you like to know why it happens,
and how you handle it?

Read on...

QUESTION: (from a "confused" reader)

Carlos, I just got your Dating Black
Book and I wish I would have gotten it a
week earlier...

I very confused by this fun and pretty
girl. We met at a party, I laid low for
a few days, then asked her to come with
me to a fashion show (she's a print
model so I knew she would come).

The date went well and we had dinner
after the show, she asked all the
questions that showed she was interested
in me (my family, background, goals,
etc).

We made out, got way too drunk, then I
took her back to her place and I kissed
her good night, and told her I wanted to
come in, but I never do that on the
first date, she looked confused but
relieved at the same time. Clearly that
doesn't happen to her often.

We had some flirty texts the following
week and I thought she was into me. I
waited a few days and coincidentally I
got tickets to one of her favorite bands
that she told me about on our date.

I left her a funny voicemail telling her
should wouldn't believe what I received
that day. No call. In fact I didn't hear
from her at all. So I waited 3 days, and
texted her a funny text, she came right
back within minutes.

She replied that she was having drinks
with a friend. So I wanted to stop this
game and told her to enjoy her night,
and maybe we could get together later in
the week.

So Carlos, I'm confused. Date 1 went
great, I followed up with fun texts
letting her know I enjoyed the night. I
faded back for a few days to give her
space, then when I try to see if she
wants to go out again, she acts aloof,
and then says that she has plans and
tries to counter with some lame brunch
during the day.

But what really got me is that she
re-initiated contact with her text to me
when she was having drinks with a friend
during the night I proposed to take her
out.

Clearly I was on her mind, and I don't
thinks she's a mean girl, but was she
trying to make me jealous or is she
crying for attention from me?

- A.R. in Kansas City, MO
______________________
CARLOS XUMA
ANSWERS WITH A REVELATION:

Yep, she really got you, all right.
You've just had a drive-by from a female
PLAYER.

Women do this to guys all the time and
guys think that it means that she's
really 'into' them, because she seems to
give off signals of interest.

But for some crazy reason, she just
can't seem to LET herself HAVE you.

My brother, you have to interpret her
actions for what they are - not what you
WANT them to be.

What I'm about to say is probably going
to be a revelation to you, and if not,
keep re-reading this until you get it...

Are you ready for your awakening?

Here it is:

A woman doesn't REALLY think about you
unless she is interested in you enough
to want to be with you again - AND
follow through.

And let me say that again in even
simpler terms:

If she's REALLY into you, she'll find a
way to make it happen.

Let me ask you this:

If you were hot for a woman, and she
called you up and said, "Hey, let's go
out to Sam's Cafe and get a beer
tonight," would you refuse her?

Hell no! You'd probably drop whatever
you were doing to go.

Because you were interested, and there
was an opportunity to ACT on it and get
what you wanted.

Now, for some reason we guys seem to
think that women really play this
hard-to-get thing seriously, and that a
woman who was hot for you somehow
*wouldn't* say yes. She would say NO
just to be coy.

Or because she just couldn't help
herself.

Uh, no.

If she's into you, she WILL find a way
to get with you.

Women do not sit around and plot out
elaborate ways to deny themselves the
pleasure of your company.

Really.

Your job is to drive her interest level
in you up so high that she CANNOT refuse
a date with you under any situation.

That's it, my man. That's your duty.
Anything else is playing it safe.

And let's be brutally honest here: She's
a model. She's used to the constant
adoration of guys, and that is what
fuels her self-esteem.

The term for this kind of person is
"attention whore." (And that name can be
used on guys, too, by the way.)

You're just another fanboy, a fun moment
in her life. She texted you to ping you
and see if you were pining away for her,
and it made her feel like queen of her
castle.

What you're guilty of here is IMAGINING
her attraction and interest based on the
fact that she showed you a SMALL
indication of interest. Her texting you
doesn't really show that she's hot for
you, as much as I'd like to tell you
that.

Sorry, but that's just a momentary
fluctuation in her mood.

She was probably just trying to make
herself feel better for having backed
out on your plans. (Women do this A LOT
as a way to maintain the image of the
"good girl.")

Is she interested in you?

It doesn't matter until she follows
through on it.

Let me put it this way: You have no room
for a woman in your life that is
interested in you BUT goes out of her
way to deny herself (and YOU) the
reality of actually getting together.

You get me?

Just imagine what kind of games are in
your future with a woman who would keep
this B.S. up.

This kind of game playing is infantile
and immature, and you don't have the
time for it. Your life is busy - hell,
CROWDED - with women to get with.

Isn't it?

If you'd like to get started right now
learning the power secrets that I've
learned to at-tract women - with the
REAL YOU - then you need to see my
Get a Girlfriend - FAST program...

Remember my Rule of Attraction: A woman
isn't into you until she takes ACTION on
her desire.

What you do next is simply this:

Keep her in your phone book. Text her
regularly, teasing her. Don't ask her
out or try hard to get her on another
"date."

After a week of this, offer her a few
"spur of the moment" chances to hang out
with you. No more than an hour or two in
advance. And do it on a Monday or
Tuesday when she probably won't have any
other options.

Be commanding. Be assertive. Take the
lead and tell her exactly what kind of a
fun time she's going to have.

But do not allow yourself to be
swallowed by the "what happened?"
obsession that strikes guys who are
hit-and-run by these kinds of flighty,
flaky women.

The Alpha Man has so many options in his
life that he doesn't have the time to
think about all these women players.

And neither should you...

If you'd like to learn more strategies
on how to deal with women and understand
the game of dating COMPLETELY - from
approaching all the way to finding a new
girlfriend, you can learn more.

Just go here.

Don't miss tomorrow's lesson when I
explain why women test men and break
down some mistakes in an example of
approaching...




Stay Alpha...!

- Carlos Xuma

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attraction - CLICK HERE..

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