From: Jake <jake@jakevandenhoff.com>
Date: Mon, May 21, 2012 at 12:02 PM
Subject: Three Cruel Lies About 'What to Say Next…'
Let's agree right now that if you don't know how to talk
to women... you're NOT going home with them.
Plain and simple.
No amount of muscles, nice clothes, or fancy cars will
change that fact.
Unfortunately for guys who lack this skill there is a TON of
useless advice out there... (trust me, as a former painfully
shy guy I spent years being led down the wrong path)
Yep. Most of the advice on conversation is flat out
misleading (if not damaging)
Here's three of the most erroneous lies you've probably
been taught about talking to women as laid out by Bobby Rio.
Lie #1: Try to find things in common
For some reason people just love to advise 'finding things in
common'.
Problem is that when you fish for things you have in common
you are walking the slow death into the friend zone.
You've probably heard my "health food girl" story....
How I spent 2 hours talking health food with some chick
thinking we were practically soul mates...
... 15 minutes after our conversation ends she's upstairs
giving some other dude a handy dandy...
When you search for 'things in common' you pigeon hole
yourself as THAT GUY. Her music buddy, or her health
food friend...
Instead you want to be the FUN GUY she she gets sexually
excited around.
Lie #2: Pretend you're not interested
I can't tell you how many guys I coach who don't close the
deal because they're trying to seem 'disinterested'....
While you definitely should NOT be writing girls poems,
obsessively complimenting them, or showering them with drinks....
She MUST know you're interested in her.
When you try to *hide* your interest what you are actually
hiding is your MASCULINITY.
You are a man. You are supposed to be sexually interested
in her.
Trying to overtly seem disinterested will make you seem **gay**
or she'll assume you're just too shy to know what to do.
Lie #3: Be funny.
Women want FUN. NOT funny.
Here's the thing.. being funny is hard work.
The fact is most humor requires inside jokes and previous
knowledge...
Its very easy to be funny around your friends because you can
laugh about things you are both familiar with.
But SHE probably won't find the same story as funny
(when she doesn't know the people involved)
So stop trying to be funny. You are making it too damn hard on
yourself.
Give her fun. It's easier, and its what she wants anyway.
"FUN" is the ultimate commodity. Its what we search for when
we go out.
But here's something you might not know..
Fun is also an aphrodisiac. Yep. The more "Fun" she is having
around you the hornier she will become.
Its because of a chemical reaction that is going on in her brain.
i won't go into details, but just know that when she's in that
giddy, fun mode she's also slowly getting more and more turned on.
So there you go...
I just finished up a new video all about "Changing the words you use"
to create chemistry and attraction...
In this video I reveal the Triangle of Temptation. These are the three
emotions a woman is powerless against.
When you block out all the 'noise' and focus on these three things
you'll find your conversations quickly reach the next level.
Check it out soon because I'm not sure how long he'll be leaving it up.
Make it happen!
Bobby
P.S. In the video he also talk about a concept I call "taking her back to the playground"
This one technique will drastically improve your "close rate"
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