Fwd: Should you RESCUE a woman? - Michael Fiore

Be a man that you are.  Avoid being a victim of bitches.  Slay the dragon

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From: Michael Fiore <feedback@texttheromanceback.com>
Date: Thu, Jul 5, 2012 at 11:50 PM
Subject: Should you RESCUE a woman?

Hey, it's Mike Fiore . . .

How was your Fourth of July?

I've got one big question for

you in today's newsletter: 

As always, you can comment on any one of

these questions and offer up your opinion

on my Facebook wall at http://ttrb.me/facebook.

  

Michael Carrillo

"Right now I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend. 

We had been dating for six months when all of a 

sudden the man she had been engaged to before we

started seeing each other came back into the picture. 

She said she owed it to herself to see if she had 

feelings for him which is when she broke up with me. 

Now it has been a month and she has been living in 

his house, but insists that she is not in love with 

this guy. She sends me texts and calls me at least 

once a week to tell me she misses me and that she 

made a mistake and wants to be with me. Yet she 

is still with this guy in his house. She is 

telling me it is complicated, to be patient, 

and have faith because she is in love with me. 

I know this is bad for me because the stress 

is giving me insomnia, but I have tried moving

 on since then. I have been talking to other

 women and have reconnected with a former girlfriend, 

but can only be with friends with her because of

 what happened in the past. Am I being a fool

 for still loving this girl and thinking that 

she will come back to me?"

Stop being so god damned respectful and understanding.

Seriously.

I know, I know. It's 2012. We're supposed to

be all "feminist" now (I'll probably write

a whole newsletter about how both men

and women misinterpret the word

"feminism" by the way. I'm a feminist,

but not in the way most folks think.)

 . . . 

But what you're doing now . . . "waiting around"

for her, twiddling your thumbs and "giving her

time to figure things out" is about as effective,

attractive and sexy as cutting off your own testicles

and making some kind of stew out of them.

If you truly love this girl, man up,

stop being so nice and go freaking rescue

her from this idiotic ogre.

Slay some dragons. Crawl over broken glass.

Do everything you can to get her back

in your house and out of his. 

And her saying it's "complicated"

is pure, unmitigated BS. Either 

she wants to be with him or wants to be

with you. Put it on the line.

Go to her. Seduce her. Show her

that you're strong and committed. 

FIGHT for her.

Be unreasonable about it.

Be vicious.

Be a man.

And if you "lose?" If you make

a sincere play to make her YOURS

with all the conviction and doggedness

of Mario rescuing the princess from

Bowser (hells yeah, a freaking Mario

Bros. reference . . .)

If after all that she still

wants to "try things out"

with this douchebag?

Then you walk away and you never

look back.

But what you're doing right now . . .

"Waiting around" for her . . . being

her emotional crutch . . .

Ugh. 

Not sexy, dude. 

It makes me want to pet your head

like a puppy and see if you'll chase

a stick.

Agree? Disagree? 

Let me know on Facebook.

http://ttrb.me/facebook.

Mike Fiore

P.S. As always, feel free to pass

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