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Saturday, July 7, 2012

Fwd: Why, How Women Test You (And What To Do About It)



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From: Simon Heong (Personal Email) <simonhg1806@gmail.com>
Date: Thu, Jul 5, 2012 at 10:47 AM
Subject: Why, How Women Test You (And What To Do About It) Jorge...
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Hi

There is no scientific definition for "shit test", but it's
generally defined as follows: the test a woman gives a man in
the early stages of dating, usually through curious and sly
questions or comments.

Here are some example and their categories (they vary in
shittiness):

A) Some deal with your courtship rituals, like "I can't talk
   with a man until he buys me a drink"
B) Some deal with her sex appeal, like "that barwoman is so hot?
   Don't you think?"
C) Some deal with your dating habits, like "so you're quite
   the player, aren't you?"
D) Some deal with your intellectual prowess, like she'll tell
   a joke (it could be unintelligble) and say, "You're a little
   slow, aren't you?"

Women do this, sometimes consciously, sometimes not.

If we do it--embrace it.

It means we're interested.

It means we're stimulated--or want to be.

It means we're setting up sexual tension.

It means we want to dance, rather than just sit around bored,
twittling our thumbs, waiting for some cuter guy to come along.

But it also means we're setting up a protective layer--because
you might just be the one to make us happy, and hence hurt us.

The shit test is often interpreted as a test a woman gives to
see if he is worthy of her; it's her way of weeding out the
pussies from the men.

She's so great and perfect, she has the pick of the litter,
so she has the luxury of choosing the smartest, the best,
fittest. That's only half the story.

Here's the other (female) half: the shit test doesn't only
test your confidence, it is designed to raise hers!

Even the smart and beautiful woman has many insecurities. (Is
he only after my body? Will he still like me without make-up
and when I have morning breath?

Will he continue to pursue me when I start needing or
pursuing him?). She knows she's the prettiest girl at the party,
but she also knows she's a little girl seeking love.

So she sets up small pitfalls, knowing that some ditches are
in store when you get past the first drink and actually get
to know each other.

The questions/comments are designed to (referring to the
earlier examples, respectively):

A) Get what is due her as a desirable lady being courted
   by a man
B) Confirm your attraction to her above others
C) Differentiate you from the jerks
D) Know that you'll seek to understand her and be a better
   man for her

But the desirable woman doesn't want to broadcast her
insecurities, so she hides them through wit and challenge.

The man must show he's not fazed by or even cognizant  of her
insecurities, so he should respond with wit and challenge
in kind, while also boosting her up.

Some PUA's advise the man to ignore the shit test (by changing
the subject) -- and that's good advice if you only want to get
into her pants.

But if you actually want to date her, you should step up and
use the shit test as an opportunity to prove that you can handle
her - when she's up on that pedestal as a goddess, and when
she's a plain woman taking a poop on a different kind of pedestal.

Here are some examples of answers to the sample questions
above. (If the chemistry's right, your intuition should
guide you.)

A) I was about to get you a drink, but I didn't want you to
   think I wanted to get you drunk
B) She's okay (then look at her like with desire), but you're
   the hottest girl here (watch her blush)
C) Of course I'm a player, just looking for the right woman
   to reform me (wink)
D) What can I say, I'm no match for your wit, but I can drive
    a pretty fast Ferrari, can you?

Ultimately, the shit test is not only testing yours, but hers.

And when the shit hits the fan, she wants to know that you
can laugh about it together. Because, ultimately, she's human
too.

I explain this concept in more detail within my Secrets Of
Getting A Girlfriend program. This program will give you an
in-depth education on how to think and behave in such a way
that will spark a woman's GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION for you... no
matter what your looks, height, income, age, etc.

You will learn literally HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of killer ideas for
getting over your fears, approaching women, getting dates, and
taking things to a physical level.

The best part?

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No kidding. You can order it now and try all the techniques
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Trust me, I don't get many of them back! But I DO get back a lot
of letters telling me about the success that guys are having
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transformation that this success leads to in other areas of life.

This is your download link:

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Rooting for ya,

Simon H





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