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Seven Dangerous "Texting" Mistakes (part 1 of 2)
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Date: Wed, Oct 17, 2012 at 9:17 AM
Subject: Seven Dangerous "Texting" Mistakes (part 1 of
We've talked a lot about conversation and flirting
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From: Bobby Rio <bobby@tsbmagazine.com>
Date: Wed, Oct 17, 2012 at 9:17 AM
Subject: Seven Dangerous "Texting" Mistakes (part 1 of
Hey,
We've talked a lot about conversation and flirting
over the past few weeks.
But one thing you might be over-looking is your
"texting skills."
One of the most frustrating things is when you get
a woman's number (and she seems to be totally into you)
... But then after a few texts she seems to list interest,
fizzle out, or go cold.
The natural reaction is to blame the woman. "She's a
flake..."
But if you do that, you could missing a giant crink
in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.
In fact, if you're like most guys than you're probably
just making one (or a few) of these common 'texting'
mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes (part 1 of 2)
Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction
Before you've had your first date with a girl, she won't
feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it
may be, you're probably not the only guy texting her.
See, a common mistake most guys make when they're
texting a girl is that they mistake responses for
attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from
a girl, he believes that he's getting closer to getting
her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl
means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting
up with her! That's right: even if a girl is RESPONDING
to your texts, youíre not getting yourself ANY closer
to actually getting her out on a date.
Instead, say more with less. Whenever you're considering
what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less
text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, "How's
your day?" or "Enjoying the warm weather?"
These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman!
They just beg for a response (which doesn't mean anything).
They just beg for a response (which doesn't mean anything).
To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter,
ask yourself this golden question:
How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?
If your answer is simply to get her to know her better
erase the text. It's not going to help you.
Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"
Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number
she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you...
And until it seems FUN for her... she's probably not going
to bother meeting up with you.
So when you send boring texts that don't display any
personality or don't elicit any emotions in her... in her
mind you're not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you're NOT being fun.
- Am I being stiff and formal "Hi. It was nice meeting you
friday".... (too stiff. too formal)
- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?
- Am I badering her with question?
Remember, every text you send should make you seem like
the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.
Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style
If you're texting an attractive woman chances are you
are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today.
Hate to break it to you.
But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends,
co-workers, classmates, and so on... she's got a lot of
guys vying for her attention.
So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display
your unique style and personality.
She should be able to know its a text from you just by
reading it (even if the name was blocked)
What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely
yours?
Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations
Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.
Texting should be the "Super cool" cliff notes of a normal
conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.
The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things
up or run into akward confusion.
Everytime you pick up the phone... jump right into the good
stuff. Start with anectdote. Start with a teasing nickname.
Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying
full attention to you.
In this new video just released I explain how you can (and
should) accomplish everything you need to accomplish with
just three simple texts.
Tomorrow I'll be back with three more of the common texting
mistakes men make.
In the meantime, check out the video and learn how you can
turn a woman on, and get her out on a date with a simple
sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.
Talk to you tomorrow!
Bobby
71 B Saint Andrews Blvd, clifton, NJ 07012, USA
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Date: Thu, Jan 10, 2013 at 6:54 AM
Subject: WET pleasure (VIDEO)
From: Gabrielle Moore <gabrielle@gabriellemoore.com>
Date: Thu, Jan 10, 2013 at 6:54 AM
Subject: WET pleasure (VIDEO)
WOW!
Darling, you have no idea the amount of
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As an experienced woman who LOVES having
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Darling, you have no idea the amount of
positive comments I've received since
I published my sexy video about:
Giving women squirting orgasms.
As an experienced woman who LOVES having
great sex, I can tell you that there is NOTHING
like enjoying what I call:
WET PLEASURE. ;)
If you want to surprise your loved one
with one of the most intense sensations
she can experience in bed, I strongly
recommend watching the video now.
Click here to watch my sensual video now...
IMPORTANT:
Your girl will LOVE you when you use the
techniques I will share with you today.
Click here to watch my sensual video now...
Hot Kisses,
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1489 Marine Dr. Suite 118
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Why She Can't Orgasm (And How To Fix It...)
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Date: Fri, Jan 11, 2013 at 8:00 PM
Subject: Why She Can't Orgasm (And How To Fix It...)
From: Lloyd Lester <lloyd@lloydlestertips.com>
Date: Fri, Jan 11, 2013 at 8:00 PM
Subject: Why She Can't Orgasm (And How To Fix It...)
Did you know that 75 percent of all women never
reach orgasm from intercourse alone?
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==> Why she can't orgasm (and how to give her a
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Enjoy! :-)
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==> Here's how to help her get over the orgasm
"hang-up"
reach orgasm from intercourse alone?
Pretty scary statistics, isn't it? Especially if
you're a guy who prides himself with his
performance in the bedroom.
There are often very specific reasons why a
woman can't climax. Your lady might just have one
of these 3 issues...
==> Why she can't orgasm (and how to give her a
HUGE one tonight!)
Enjoy! :-)
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P.S. Many women are not even aware they are
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==> Here's how to help her get over the orgasm
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How To Literally Have It ALL
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From: Mirabelle Summers <news@meetyoursweet.com>
Date: Wed, Jan 9, 2013 at 7:04 AM
Subject: How To Literally Have It ALL
Dating is not simple.
This is the BALD TRUTH.
In fact, it's actually an extremely complex
situation, with many shifting variables - and that
is why 'system-based' dating techniques, and
trying to follow set rules, NEVER works in the
long run.
The simple truth is that the world - and that
includes your love life! - is just too complex to
be contained within a system, or a set of rules.
It's more important, and much more REWARDING,
for you to learn how to appropriately handle each
situation TO YOUR ADVANTAGE as and when it arises.
Imagine having the ability and the confidence
to walk blindly into new social situations, handle
yourself with charisma and panache, and come away
with new friends - and new dates - EVERY time.
It's entirely possible. In fact, it's not even
particularly DIFFICULT.
After spending a LOT of time figuring this
stuff out, I've come to the conclusion that there
are two things that this kind of easy, consistent
success hinges upon:
- 1. Self-confidence
- 2. The ability to communicate congruently (which
basically means that you know how to set others at
ease around you, and make them like you.)
And - surprise, surprise - these 2 things are
ALSO just about the most CHALLENGING aspects of
self-development, and of developing a stable,
rewarding, loving relationship.
That's exactly why Slade and I have put
together 2 comprehensive books: the first, on
self-confidence, and the second, on fun, witty,
easy communication that WORKS.
Look: I KNOW, from personal experience, just
how difficult it can be to overcome problems in
these areas without outside help ...
...and I ALSO know, also from personal
experience, just how FUN and EASY dating (not to
mention life in general!) is when you've got these
2 things under control.
Don't restrict your horizons. Don't limit your
potential. Reach out and make the decision to
IMPROVE YOURSELF - and take a huge step forward
towards reaching your ultimate goals.
If you want to know more, you can find Slade's
book on self-confidence here:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/selfconfidence/women/index.php
... and you can find MY book, on easy,
attraction-building conversation right here:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/conversationchemistry/women/
Now then ...
It is not uncommon for women, when they find
themselves a great new relationship, to roll over
and 'play dead'.
This is a particularly apt phrase, which
basically means 'they inconvenience themselves on
a regular basis for the sake of spending time with
their new man.'
This inconveniencing generally comes in the
form of CANCELING PLANS and giving up stuff that
you like to do - often, stuff that formed the
backbone of the pleasure in your life.
I'm not talking about quitting college or
giving up your career or anything like that
(although, and it pains me to say this, some women
are, unfortunately, shortsighted enough to give up
their livelihoods when they 'find somebody'.)
I'm primarily talking about giving up the
so-called 'little things' that, prior to meeting
the new man, made up a large part of your personal
routine.
For example: spending time with your pets.
Seeing your friends regularly. Going out for
morning coffee with your mom on Saturdays. Girls'
nights out. Your weekly Pilates class. That novel
you've been enjoying. Etc.
For other women, it's not quite so obvious.
They may not cancel any plans, but they may RUIN
those plans by checking their voicemail every 20 minutes
in case HE'S left a message. Or they may spend the
whole time obsessing about HIM.
Or they may even be managing to stick to their
hectic schedule ... by sacrificing basic personal
essentials, like sleep and rest.
Besides the obvious drawbacks of quitting this
stuff/sacrificing your lifestyle - namely, that
you give up doing stuff that you like! - it also
says a LOT about your self-confidence when you
start giving up what you enjoy, and canceling your
plans, for the sake of spending time with a man.
I'd like to take this opportunity here to point
out that I'm not encouraging you to be one of
those rigid women who is so set in her routine and
so utterly inflexible that she can't even
comprehend of making a change when she meets
someone new.
OBVIOUSLY when you introduce a fascinating new
person into your life, things are going to change.
Instead, I'm trying to highlight the importance
of KEEPING YOUR INDEPENDENCE, and the satisfaction
that you feel with your life.
You do not need to give up your life. You do
not need to start rushing through the day,
wondering how you can pare down the activities
you've scheduled for yourself, just so you can
'fit everything in'. You don't need to STRESS
about it.
Dating somebody that you like is meant to
IMPROVE your life, not detract from its quality.
If you find yourself feeling anxious, overwhelmed,
or depleted, you've gotta take a step back and
start investigating WHY THAT IS.
Are you asking too much from yourself? Are you
taking on the responsibility for the wellbeing of
the relationship without even realizing it?
This is a very real possibility. Not to
generalize, but the truth is that, as women, we
really are conditioned - WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT -
to play the role of the 'nurturer'. Heck, we're
not even necessarily CONDITIONED to it! To a very
large extent, it's simply WHO WE ARE.
One result of this is often that we will put
pressure on ourselves, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, to make
sure that everybody is getting what they need ...
for example, that our friends are seeing us
enough, that our pets are happy and well cared
for, and that our boyfriend is spending enough
time with us to be happy.
These are all important things, make no
mistake.
But YOU SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST.
What this means is that you should not be
giving stuff up to 'make room' for your new
relationship, unless it's RECIPROCAL.
Don't take all the weight onto yourself. Not
only is this not good for you, but it's also VERY
unhealthy for his regard for you.
That's right ... being the Relationship Martyr
will actually turn him OFF.
Men NOTICE when you cancel other plans just to
be with them.
First of all, from his perspective, it's not
good to be with a woman who doesn't stay true to
her word: even though he's technically benefiting
from you canceling or postponing other plans, he
will not be proud of you when he sees that you're
OK with dishonoring promises (whether that's
promises to yourself, or to others.)
Secondly, when he sees that you're canceling
other plans in order to be with him, he will
actually lose respect for you, because he'll see
that you're starting to lose your independence ...
and that you're beginning to center your life
around HIM.
Contrary to what the media would have us
believe, this is NOT what men want.
They may SAY they do.
They may even pout and complain if they feel
like you've got other priorities over and above
them.
But nothing can alter the value of the RESPECT
that he will have for you, when your actions prove
- over and over - that not only are you an
independent woman with her own life ...
...but that you honor your promises (both to
yourself, and to others) ...
... and that you are ALSO content with your life,
JUST THE WAY YOU'VE MADE IT.
It is very reassuring to a man to know that he
is not the center of your universe. As women, we
often make the mistake of acting as though HE
THINKS THE SAME WAY WE DO.
As a result of this, our words and actions can
convey to him the idea that he is the
all-important and vital centerpiece to our lives ...
... when in fact, not only are WE happier when we
have our own life, and we FOCUS on that life, but
HE is happier too.
He doesn't want to feel like you're a
codependent and whiny woman who needs his
attention and affection just to get by.
He wants to feel like you're one of the 'cool
girls' - a woman who's got a full, happy life, who
loves to spend time with him, but doesn't feel the
need to compromise the OTHER enjoyable aspects of
her life to focus solely on him.
One last word on this subject: as I've
mentioned, occasionally you may come across a man
who will complain or pout when your actions prove
that you have priorities - and that some of them
come before him.
He may sulk if you don't come straight over to
his house after work (neglecting the gym, dinner,
and dog.)
He may get upset if you want to have a girls'
night out on the weekend.
He might complain if your nail appointment
clashes with the movie he wanted to take you to
see.
Here's my take on it: firstly, DON'T GIVE IN. A
woman with self-respect and self-value does not
treat her plans and schedules like small,
disposable things. They are important to her,
because they are HER plans and schedules. And she
expects her partner to respect that too.
Secondly, you've got to ask yourself, do you
really want to be spending time with a man who
clearly does not prioritize your happiness?
Look: let's be realistic here. If he is getting
upset because you're spending EVERY WEEKEND doing
other things without him, well, he may have a
point.
But if your guy is sulking because you happen
to have a life that happens to include priorities
OTHER THAN him ... you have to think to yourself
whether you are really willing to participate
fully in a relationship with someone who is not
overly concerned with what matters to you.
He might have been 'spoiled' by other women
he's dated, women who eagerly cancelled any plans
they might have had simply to hang out with him.
He might have had his expectations ruined
(temporarily, that is - after all, he's seeing YOU
now) by women who didn't understand that being
'too available' is the death knell to a good
relationship.
I'm not telling you to be obnoxious or arrogant
about your preferences. I'm telling you that if
you want to enjoy your life, for your relationship
to ALWAYS retain that 'spark', and for him to
respect you, you've got to prioritize the things
that matter to you.
Remember this: if he pouts, and you give in,
you've set a precedent for the future: and he gets
the upper hand over you.
Whereas, if you're NICE, but FIRM, and you hold
your ground - which is what he secretly wants you
to do anyway - things will remain sassy,
sexy, and EQUAL.
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your friend,
Mirabelle Summers
MeetYourSweet.com
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From: Mirabelle Summers <news@meetyoursweet.com>
Date: Wed, Jan 9, 2013 at 7:04 AM
Subject: How To Literally Have It ALL
Dating is not simple.
This is the BALD TRUTH.
In fact, it's actually an extremely complex
situation, with many shifting variables - and that
is why 'system-based' dating techniques, and
trying to follow set rules, NEVER works in the
long run.
The simple truth is that the world - and that
includes your love life! - is just too complex to
be contained within a system, or a set of rules.
It's more important, and much more REWARDING,
for you to learn how to appropriately handle each
situation TO YOUR ADVANTAGE as and when it arises.
Imagine having the ability and the confidence
to walk blindly into new social situations, handle
yourself with charisma and panache, and come away
with new friends - and new dates - EVERY time.
It's entirely possible. In fact, it's not even
particularly DIFFICULT.
After spending a LOT of time figuring this
stuff out, I've come to the conclusion that there
are two things that this kind of easy, consistent
success hinges upon:
- 1. Self-confidence
- 2. The ability to communicate congruently (which
basically means that you know how to set others at
ease around you, and make them like you.)
And - surprise, surprise - these 2 things are
ALSO just about the most CHALLENGING aspects of
self-development, and of developing a stable,
rewarding, loving relationship.
That's exactly why Slade and I have put
together 2 comprehensive books: the first, on
self-confidence, and the second, on fun, witty,
easy communication that WORKS.
Look: I KNOW, from personal experience, just
how difficult it can be to overcome problems in
these areas without outside help ...
...and I ALSO know, also from personal
experience, just how FUN and EASY dating (not to
mention life in general!) is when you've got these
2 things under control.
Don't restrict your horizons. Don't limit your
potential. Reach out and make the decision to
IMPROVE YOURSELF - and take a huge step forward
towards reaching your ultimate goals.
If you want to know more, you can find Slade's
book on self-confidence here:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/selfconfidence/women/index.php
... and you can find MY book, on easy,
attraction-building conversation right here:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/conversationchemistry/women/
Now then ...
It is not uncommon for women, when they find
themselves a great new relationship, to roll over
and 'play dead'.
This is a particularly apt phrase, which
basically means 'they inconvenience themselves on
a regular basis for the sake of spending time with
their new man.'
This inconveniencing generally comes in the
form of CANCELING PLANS and giving up stuff that
you like to do - often, stuff that formed the
backbone of the pleasure in your life.
I'm not talking about quitting college or
giving up your career or anything like that
(although, and it pains me to say this, some women
are, unfortunately, shortsighted enough to give up
their livelihoods when they 'find somebody'.)
I'm primarily talking about giving up the
so-called 'little things' that, prior to meeting
the new man, made up a large part of your personal
routine.
For example: spending time with your pets.
Seeing your friends regularly. Going out for
morning coffee with your mom on Saturdays. Girls'
nights out. Your weekly Pilates class. That novel
you've been enjoying. Etc.
For other women, it's not quite so obvious.
They may not cancel any plans, but they may RUIN
those plans by checking their voicemail every 20 minutes
in case HE'S left a message. Or they may spend the
whole time obsessing about HIM.
Or they may even be managing to stick to their
hectic schedule ... by sacrificing basic personal
essentials, like sleep and rest.
Besides the obvious drawbacks of quitting this
stuff/sacrificing your lifestyle - namely, that
you give up doing stuff that you like! - it also
says a LOT about your self-confidence when you
start giving up what you enjoy, and canceling your
plans, for the sake of spending time with a man.
I'd like to take this opportunity here to point
out that I'm not encouraging you to be one of
those rigid women who is so set in her routine and
so utterly inflexible that she can't even
comprehend of making a change when she meets
someone new.
OBVIOUSLY when you introduce a fascinating new
person into your life, things are going to change.
Instead, I'm trying to highlight the importance
of KEEPING YOUR INDEPENDENCE, and the satisfaction
that you feel with your life.
You do not need to give up your life. You do
not need to start rushing through the day,
wondering how you can pare down the activities
you've scheduled for yourself, just so you can
'fit everything in'. You don't need to STRESS
about it.
Dating somebody that you like is meant to
IMPROVE your life, not detract from its quality.
If you find yourself feeling anxious, overwhelmed,
or depleted, you've gotta take a step back and
start investigating WHY THAT IS.
Are you asking too much from yourself? Are you
taking on the responsibility for the wellbeing of
the relationship without even realizing it?
This is a very real possibility. Not to
generalize, but the truth is that, as women, we
really are conditioned - WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT -
to play the role of the 'nurturer'. Heck, we're
not even necessarily CONDITIONED to it! To a very
large extent, it's simply WHO WE ARE.
One result of this is often that we will put
pressure on ourselves, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, to make
sure that everybody is getting what they need ...
for example, that our friends are seeing us
enough, that our pets are happy and well cared
for, and that our boyfriend is spending enough
time with us to be happy.
These are all important things, make no
mistake.
But YOU SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST.
What this means is that you should not be
giving stuff up to 'make room' for your new
relationship, unless it's RECIPROCAL.
Don't take all the weight onto yourself. Not
only is this not good for you, but it's also VERY
unhealthy for his regard for you.
That's right ... being the Relationship Martyr
will actually turn him OFF.
Men NOTICE when you cancel other plans just to
be with them.
First of all, from his perspective, it's not
good to be with a woman who doesn't stay true to
her word: even though he's technically benefiting
from you canceling or postponing other plans, he
will not be proud of you when he sees that you're
OK with dishonoring promises (whether that's
promises to yourself, or to others.)
Secondly, when he sees that you're canceling
other plans in order to be with him, he will
actually lose respect for you, because he'll see
that you're starting to lose your independence ...
and that you're beginning to center your life
around HIM.
Contrary to what the media would have us
believe, this is NOT what men want.
They may SAY they do.
They may even pout and complain if they feel
like you've got other priorities over and above
them.
But nothing can alter the value of the RESPECT
that he will have for you, when your actions prove
- over and over - that not only are you an
independent woman with her own life ...
...but that you honor your promises (both to
yourself, and to others) ...
... and that you are ALSO content with your life,
JUST THE WAY YOU'VE MADE IT.
It is very reassuring to a man to know that he
is not the center of your universe. As women, we
often make the mistake of acting as though HE
THINKS THE SAME WAY WE DO.
As a result of this, our words and actions can
convey to him the idea that he is the
all-important and vital centerpiece to our lives ...
... when in fact, not only are WE happier when we
have our own life, and we FOCUS on that life, but
HE is happier too.
He doesn't want to feel like you're a
codependent and whiny woman who needs his
attention and affection just to get by.
He wants to feel like you're one of the 'cool
girls' - a woman who's got a full, happy life, who
loves to spend time with him, but doesn't feel the
need to compromise the OTHER enjoyable aspects of
her life to focus solely on him.
One last word on this subject: as I've
mentioned, occasionally you may come across a man
who will complain or pout when your actions prove
that you have priorities - and that some of them
come before him.
He may sulk if you don't come straight over to
his house after work (neglecting the gym, dinner,
and dog.)
He may get upset if you want to have a girls'
night out on the weekend.
He might complain if your nail appointment
clashes with the movie he wanted to take you to
see.
Here's my take on it: firstly, DON'T GIVE IN. A
woman with self-respect and self-value does not
treat her plans and schedules like small,
disposable things. They are important to her,
because they are HER plans and schedules. And she
expects her partner to respect that too.
Secondly, you've got to ask yourself, do you
really want to be spending time with a man who
clearly does not prioritize your happiness?
Look: let's be realistic here. If he is getting
upset because you're spending EVERY WEEKEND doing
other things without him, well, he may have a
point.
But if your guy is sulking because you happen
to have a life that happens to include priorities
OTHER THAN him ... you have to think to yourself
whether you are really willing to participate
fully in a relationship with someone who is not
overly concerned with what matters to you.
He might have been 'spoiled' by other women
he's dated, women who eagerly cancelled any plans
they might have had simply to hang out with him.
He might have had his expectations ruined
(temporarily, that is - after all, he's seeing YOU
now) by women who didn't understand that being
'too available' is the death knell to a good
relationship.
I'm not telling you to be obnoxious or arrogant
about your preferences. I'm telling you that if
you want to enjoy your life, for your relationship
to ALWAYS retain that 'spark', and for him to
respect you, you've got to prioritize the things
that matter to you.
Remember this: if he pouts, and you give in,
you've set a precedent for the future: and he gets
the upper hand over you.
Whereas, if you're NICE, but FIRM, and you hold
your ground - which is what he secretly wants you
to do anyway - things will remain sassy,
sexy, and EQUAL.
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your friend,
Mirabelle Summers
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Women cheat like men...
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From: Jake <jake@jakevandenhoff.com>
Date: Fri, Jan 11, 2013 at 8:07 PM
Subject: Women cheat like men...
From: Jake <jake@jakevandenhoff.com>
Date: Fri, Jan 11, 2013 at 8:07 PM
Subject: Women cheat like men...
Hey man,
I'm sure you know this by now, but
did you know that women cheat as
much as men do?
It's been proven in study after study.
When I revealed this to a buddy of
mine (who's kind of a wuss), he
said to me:
"Yeah, but only after the guy cheats
on her first..."
Yowch. I bet there are a lot of guys
that think this is the case.
But it's not...
Men and women cheat just as much -
it's just that women are so much better
at keeping it to themselves than guys are.
They don't feel like they have to brag
to their buddies like guys inevitably do.
Or make a dumb mistake with their cell
phone.
But one thing is consistent across the
board...
Women cheat on men with a very
SPECIFIC kind of guy.
He's usually a "bad boy."
If you want to "cheat-proof" yourself
AND steal the Bad Boy's unstoppable
techniques for yourself...
You'll discover:
- 3 Attraction triggers that the bad boy uses
to bring out a woman's "inner slut"
- without ever having to turn into a jerk...
And a TON more...
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