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From: Michael Webb <michael@theromantic.com>
Date: Wed, Nov 14, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Subject: 5 Reasons Why I Hate My Wife ( a sad but honest response to my article earlier this week) -- all WOMEN should read
To: jorge.saguinsin@gmail.com
From: Michael Webb <michael@theromantic.com>
Date: Wed, Nov 14, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Subject: 5 Reasons Why I Hate My Wife ( a sad but honest response to my article earlier this week) -- all WOMEN should read
To: jorge.saguinsin@gmail.com
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Thanks Michael. Good article. It makes sense now why I hate my wife.
1. Words of affirmation and praise. I get criticism, and after so many years, I believe it.
2. A sense of being respected. I don't get the opposite. I just don't get this.
3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard. She interrupts me and
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I thought you might like to read an HONEST reply from the
email I sent a few days ago on the 5 things men NEED from women
in order to deeply connect with them (plus some things only mentioned
in the accompany video)...
==> You can check out the video on how to deeply CONNECT with you man hereThanks Michael. Good article. It makes sense now why I hate my wife.
1. Words of affirmation and praise. I get criticism, and after so many years, I believe it.
2. A sense of being respected. I don't get the opposite. I just don't get this.
3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard. She interrupts me and
tries to fill in what I was going to say, and 90% of the time, she is wrong,
but I don't finish my sentences because it belittles me. Probably goes back to #2.
4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection.)
4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection.)
I hate her touching me because of the other things above, and the fact she
hasn't allowed sex since December 11, 2007, so it's obviously just a public
appearance thing.
5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!) See number 4.
She gets angry if I make a request (trying not to criticize) and it makes her attack
5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!) See number 4.
She gets angry if I make a request (trying not to criticize) and it makes her attack
me, so I am better off just taking it as it comes (or doesn't come, as the case may
be). "Until death do us part" is pretty all-encompassing.
I love my dog very much...
(name withheld)
I love my dog very much...
(name withheld)
Below is the email I sent a few days ago in case you have not seen it.
I highly recommend the excellent video that goes along with the article.
- Michael
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Did you ever wonder why men do some of the CRAZY things they do? Did you ever
feel completely puzzled by your man's behavior?
If it seems like sometimes his behavior is completely weird or irrational, don't feel
bad... because you're exactly right.
You see, science teaches us that while some of our desires and drives are conscious,
many of them are not. This is ESPECIALLY true for men.
While most men would NEVER admit this (most don't even know it), some of their
behaviors, drives, and desires are biologically driven.
Why Sometimes Men Don't Have a Choice...
In other words, in some areas, men don't have a choice. They are simply "wired" a
certain way.
This is why he can seem considerate and thoughtful one moment, and callous and
cold a few seconds later.
This is why sometimes you're caught off-guard by his unexpected harsh words, or
cold behavior. It's why you're sometimes left feeling as if he "pulled the rug out from
under you".
But don't worry. None of this is an excuse to let him get away with stupid behavior.
In fact, it's a key to getting what you want from your man.
To Get What You Want from Your Man, Understand This...
Change starts when we recognize the simple biological differences between men
and women. For instance....
Women generally want connection and family: they define themselves by their
relationships.
They have the nurturing instinct, the need to take care of others and maintain the
health and wellness of the people they care for.
Men, however, generally identify themselves by what they do: they want to be
providers.
A man has a need to take care of the family and be the breadwinner. It is a
subconscious need -- most men are not even aware that they have this need or drive.
While men have many of these subconscious drives, there are at least five basic
needs that all men have deep within themselves; if any of these needs are not being
met, it will cause problems in your relationship.
The 5 Basic Needs that ALL Men Have...
What are these needs? They are:
1. Words of affirmation and praise.
2. A sense of being respected.
3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard.
4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection.)
5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!)
All you have to do is meet these five basic needs, and meet them consistently, to see
your relationship transformed right before your eyes.
Meeting these needs gives you a great deal of influence with your man -- he'll be
willing to do almost ANYTHING you ask, at the drop of a hat, because you have
suddenly become the source of most of the good feelings he's having about his life.
He may not even realize what's happening.
The best part is, this is "ethical influence" because you're meeting his most basic
psychological needs. Not wants, but needs. It's as if you are nourishing his soul.
And what do YOU get out of the deal? The man you want -- the man who adores you,
shows true affection towards you, and puts you ahead of everything else in his life.
==> 3 More Tips On How to Get Your Man to Do What You Want...
Try it today, and see for yourself.
I wish you the best,
Randall E. Bennett, MA, LMFT, LCPC
P.S. A man's brain and behavior can be tough to predict, but I've identified a set of
secret triggers, that when accessed, will wake him up so he's more interested in
what YOU are saying than in the darn remote control.
==> Secret Triggers That Activate Your Man's Love Circuitry...
By using a particular set of words and phrases - triggers that set off new patterns in
his brain - you will cause your man to automatically... see you... hear you...
UNDERSTAND you...
... to listen without criticizing, and let you share your feelings without trying to "fix"
you. And the best part is that I figured out how to do this without trickery,
manipulation, begging, or drama.
==> The Magic Words that Crack Open Your Man's Heart...
Did you ever wonder why men do some of the CRAZY things they do? Did you ever
feel completely puzzled by your man's behavior?
If it seems like sometimes his behavior is completely weird or irrational, don't feel
bad... because you're exactly right.
You see, science teaches us that while some of our desires and drives are conscious,
many of them are not. This is ESPECIALLY true for men.
While most men would NEVER admit this (most don't even know it), some of their
behaviors, drives, and desires are biologically driven.
Why Sometimes Men Don't Have a Choice...
In other words, in some areas, men don't have a choice. They are simply "wired" a
certain way.
This is why he can seem considerate and thoughtful one moment, and callous and
cold a few seconds later.
This is why sometimes you're caught off-guard by his unexpected harsh words, or
cold behavior. It's why you're sometimes left feeling as if he "pulled the rug out from
under you".
But don't worry. None of this is an excuse to let him get away with stupid behavior.
In fact, it's a key to getting what you want from your man.
To Get What You Want from Your Man, Understand This...
Change starts when we recognize the simple biological differences between men
and women. For instance....
Women generally want connection and family: they define themselves by their
relationships.
They have the nurturing instinct, the need to take care of others and maintain the
health and wellness of the people they care for.
Men, however, generally identify themselves by what they do: they want to be
providers.
A man has a need to take care of the family and be the breadwinner. It is a
subconscious need -- most men are not even aware that they have this need or drive.
While men have many of these subconscious drives, there are at least five basic
needs that all men have deep within themselves; if any of these needs are not being
met, it will cause problems in your relationship.
The 5 Basic Needs that ALL Men Have...
What are these needs? They are:
1. Words of affirmation and praise.
2. A sense of being respected.
3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard.
4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection.)
5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!)
All you have to do is meet these five basic needs, and meet them consistently, to see
your relationship transformed right before your eyes.
Meeting these needs gives you a great deal of influence with your man -- he'll be
willing to do almost ANYTHING you ask, at the drop of a hat, because you have
suddenly become the source of most of the good feelings he's having about his life.
He may not even realize what's happening.
The best part is, this is "ethical influence" because you're meeting his most basic
psychological needs. Not wants, but needs. It's as if you are nourishing his soul.
And what do YOU get out of the deal? The man you want -- the man who adores you,
shows true affection towards you, and puts you ahead of everything else in his life.
==> 3 More Tips On How to Get Your Man to Do What You Want...
Try it today, and see for yourself.
I wish you the best,
Randall E. Bennett, MA, LMFT, LCPC
P.S. A man's brain and behavior can be tough to predict, but I've identified a set of
secret triggers, that when accessed, will wake him up so he's more interested in
what YOU are saying than in the darn remote control.
==> Secret Triggers That Activate Your Man's Love Circuitry...
By using a particular set of words and phrases - triggers that set off new patterns in
his brain - you will cause your man to automatically... see you... hear you...
UNDERSTAND you...
... to listen without criticizing, and let you share your feelings without trying to "fix"
you. And the best part is that I figured out how to do this without trickery,
manipulation, begging, or drama.
==> The Magic Words that Crack Open Your Man's Heart...
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W H O I S M I C H A E L W E B B ?
Michael Webb is the worlds best known romance expert. He has
written over a dozen books on relationships and has appeared
on over 500 TV and radio shows. He is founder of the extremely
popular... www.TheRomantic.com -- and husband to Athena for over 20
years...
* occasionally I will mention a product other than mine I where I
might receive some compensation. But I always try to research the
product or company first and will only recommend it if I think it
is truly worthwhile.
..........................................................
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W H O I S M I C H A E L W E B B ?
Michael Webb is the worlds best known romance expert. He has
written over a dozen books on relationships and has appeared
on over 500 TV and radio shows. He is founder of the extremely
popular... www.TheRomantic.com -- and husband to Athena for over 20
years...
* occasionally I will mention a product other than mine I where I
might receive some compensation. But I always try to research the
product or company first and will only recommend it if I think it
is truly worthwhile.
..........................................................
Y O U R S U B S C R I P T I O N
Our records indicate that at jorge.saguinsin@gmail.com requested information
by e-mail from our company at http://www.500lovemakingtips.com/splash.php
Date: March 12, 2012
IP: 110.93.90.147
PO Box 1567, Cary, NC 27512, USA
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