Seven Dangerous "Texting" Mistakes (part 1 of 2)

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From: Bobby Rio <bobby@tsbmagazine.com>
Date: Wed, Oct 17, 2012 at 9:17 AM
Subject: Seven Dangerous "Texting" Mistakes (part 1 of

Hey,

We've talked a lot about conversation and flirting

over the past few weeks.

But one thing you might be over-looking is your

"texting skills."

One of the most frustrating things is when you get

a woman's number (and she seems to be totally into you)

... But then after a few texts she seems to list interest,

fizzle out, or go cold.

The natural reaction is to blame the woman. "She's a

flake..."

But if you do that, you could missing a giant crink

in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.

In fact, if you're like most guys than you're probably

just making one (or a few) of these common 'texting'

mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.

==> New video: 3 Texts To Turn Her On and Get Her Out

The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes (part 1 of 2)

Mistake #1:  Confusing Responses for Attraction  

Before you've had your first date with a girl, she won't 

feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it 

may be, you're probably not the only guy texting her. 

See, a common mistake most guys make when they're 

texting a girl is that they mistake responses for 

attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from 

a girl, he believes that he's getting closer to getting 

her on a date or to seducing her.

The exact opposite is true!

The more texts you send before meeting up with girl 

means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting 

up with her! That's right: even if a girl is RESPONDING 

to your texts, youíre not getting yourself ANY closer 

to actually getting her out on a date.

Instead, say more with less. Whenever you're considering 

what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less 

text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, "How's 

your day?"  or  "Enjoying the warm weather?"

These texts DO  NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman!
They just beg for a response (which doesn't mean anything).

To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, 

ask yourself this golden question:

How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?

If your answer is simply to get her to know her better

erase the text. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2:  Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the simple truth.  When a woman gives you her number

she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you...

And until it seems FUN for her... she's probably not going

to bother meeting up with you.

So when you send boring texts that don't display any 

personality or don't elicit any emotions in her... in her

mind you're not worth the trouble of meeting up with.

Here are some signs you're NOT being fun.

- Am I being stiff and formal "Hi. It was nice meeting you

friday".... (too stiff. too formal)

- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?

- Am I badering her with question?

Remember, every text you send should make you seem like

the FUN OPTION.  The escape from her boring day.

Mistake #3:  Not Having a Texting Style

If you're texting an attractive woman chances are you

are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today.

Hate to break it to you.

But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends, 

co-workers, classmates, and so on...   she's got a lot of

guys vying for her attention.

So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display

your unique style and personality.

She should be able to know its a text from you just by

reading it (even if the name was blocked)

What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely

yours?

Mistake #4  Having Long Text Conversations

Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.

Texting should be the "Super cool" cliff notes of a normal

conversations.  Meaning leave out the formalities.  

The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things

up or run into akward confusion.

Everytime you pick up the phone... jump right into the good

stuff. Start with anectdote.  Start with a teasing nickname.

Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying

full attention to you.

In this new video just released I explain how you can (and

should) accomplish everything you need to accomplish with

just three simple texts.

==> Discover the power of "the Key Lock Sequence"

Tomorrow I'll be back with three more of the common texting

mistakes men make.

In the meantime, check out the video and learn how you can

turn a woman on, and get her out on a date with a simple

sequence of texts called:  The Key Lock Sequence.

Talk to you tomorrow!

Bobby

71 B Saint Andrews Blvd, clifton, NJ 07012, USA

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