Fwd: Never talk about THIS with women...

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From: Carlos Xuma <carlosxuma@alphaconfidence.com>
Date: Wed, Jun 26, 2013 at 4:07 AM
Subject: Never talk about THIS with women...



I get a lot of emails asking me what to
talk about with women.

"What subjects are interesting?"

"What do I say after I introduce
myself?"

Yadda yadda yadda...

The truth is, it doesn't matter WHAT you
talk to her about, as long as you use
the right tone and posture.

But the reality is that when you're just
getting the hang of it, you want to say
the right things to get her interested.
You can take more risks later on, but
for now you want to use the best topics.

Here's what I can tell you, though...

There are subjects you really need to
avoid talking to women about.

It's really pretty common sense, but
sometimes when a guy's mouth gets going,
he starts to forget that he's talking to
a woman, and he starts to go into
forbidden territory with his
conversation.

Let's cover a few of the things to avoid
in your conversation, whether it's a
first meeting, first date, or first
pillow talk:

1) Do not talk about Star Trek, Star
Wars, comic books, computer games, or
anything geeky or sci-fi.

Yes, I know they're pretty cool. (Except
Episode 1, great eye-candy, but just
dumb.) Yes, there's all sorts of hidden
meaning, and you really think that
Captain Kirk could kick Han Solo's ass
all over the quadrant.

But she will think you're the dorkiest
dork to ever live on planet Dork if you
start talking about this stuff.

Trust me. Unless SHE brings it up, leave
spaceships, Death Stars, or any geeky
entertainment out of the conversation.

Save that for your first anniversary, or
your first Trek convention together.

(And I'm not dissing my friends that
like this stuff, because I do, too. You
just don't have to broadcast it right
now...)

2) Do not talk about murder, famine,
war, plague, tsunamis, or death in any
way, shape, manner or form.

I don't care if you're dating Goth Girl
from Hell - leave death and violence OUT
of the conversation. I can think of no
topic better suited to closing the doors
of her bedroom than this.

All it will do is raise the Ugly
emotions in her, and unless you manage
this extremely well, you're doomed.

And if this kind of talk is something
that turns her on ... RUN FOREST, RUN!

3) Do not talk about previous boyfriends
or relationships of HERS.

Don't do it. No matter what, you'll stir
up every emotion that's made her unhappy
for the last ten years by going there.

I made this mistake once after getting
thoroughly nekkid with a cute blonde and
her ex decided to call and interrupt us.
My first impulse was to "talk it out"
with her.

"What's going on? What do you feel for
him?"

What a bonehead. I should have just kept
going and ignored his energy.

Now, previous relationships of YOURS are
a different story, especially if you
show that you are mature about it and
have good things to say about her. But
the second you turn into Bitter Boy,
you're going to turn her off faster than
Oprah watching a Krispy Kremes
commercial.

Show only your positive side.

4) Do not talk about politics or
religion.

Just don't do it. Boring. Possibly fatal
to any chance of a relationship when you
get into a heated discussion over
something silly, like Global Warming.

If she tries to bait you into a
discussion of your political views,
deflect it gently with a courteous,
"C'mon, you're not trying to bore be
this early in the relationship, are you?
At least wait until you've bought me a
nice wedding ring."

Some women really enjoy getting into
contentious discussions to A) test you,
B) get the thrill of the drama, C)
eliminate you as fast as they can just
because they're really bitchy.

Don't fall for it...

5) Do not talk about possessions (your
car, your great new plasma TV,
whatever), or status (your powerful
position, your black belt in Whoo-flung
Dung).

Women don't want to be assaulted with
your accomplishments. They want to find
out about it by discovery. This is ten
times more interesting for them because
they get to play detective.

When YOU bring up something about you it
just comes across as boasting and
insecurity.

When SHE brings it up, you always seem
more attractive to her.

I spent years and YEARS compiling all

the things that you SHOULD talk with a
woman about. This comes from experience
out there getting blasted by women, and
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- Carlos Xuma

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