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From: Bobby Rio <Bobby@tsbmagazine.com>
Date: Fri, Jul 26, 2013 at 5:33 AM
Subject: Make her want to flirt with you
Hi Bobby here again.
I hope you tried the ideas about starting up a conversation with
a hot girl that I gave you in the last email.
If you haven't yet, go read the page by my buddy Jon.
I linked to it in the last email, but I'm doing it again here
because it really goes along with the "conversation road-map" that
I've been talking about.
---> Check out Jon's page here
I want to highlight one thing that Jon teaches to his students
and writes about in his books.
It's called the law of reciprocity.
And it is a HUGE part of building rapport with a girl during your
first conversation with her.
So, the "law of reciprocity" is this: you have to give
something if you want to get something back.
In a conversation, this means you have to contribute information
as well as ask for it.
Lots of guys create a barrier between themselves and a girl
because they do not follow this "law."
Think about it.
You want the conversation to FLOW, so that it seems natural and
comfortable for both you and her.
Most guys, my past self included, think the best strategy is to
simply ask a girl a lot of questions.
But all this does is make a one-sided conversation that will
probably make her uncomfortable (She'll think: "it kinda feels
like this guy is interrogating me or something.")
Avoiding this one-sided dynamic is really simple: just make sure
that you are giving as much information as you are asking her
for.
Volunteer stuff about yourself even if she isn't asking for it;
do whatever you have to to create a balanced conversation.
You can read more about having a balanced conversation here
OK.
After she's comfortable with you, what's next?
If you've been reading my emails, you probably already know some
of my strategies for creating sexual chemistry and attraction
with girls.
Yeah, there are lots of ways to do this, but right now I want to
give you one simple but solid strategy that works in almost ANY
SITUATION.
Here it is:
Tease her.
A lot of guys stay away from teasing at first...they are too
scared that they are going to offend the girl or that she's not
going to get it.
Forget that little voice in your head that tells you not to tease
girls.
Here's why teasing works so well:
Teasing is a way to bring up the idea of you and her being
together (as in romantically or sexually) without actually saying
it straight out.
It doesn't destroy the comfort level that you have already built
up with the girl, but it directs the conversation in a
more sexual, intimate direction.
If you tease her in the right way, she'll usually respond by
flirting or teasing you back.
If she starts teasing, that is a very, very good sign.
BUT, it's important to get teasing right.
If you are too sexual or too blunt, you might scare her away.
But if you aren't obvious enough, she may miss the teasing
altogether.
Jon's $7 ebook has some great examples of exactly how to tease.
He even has a couple on his free web page.
---> You can check out the page and find a link to the ebook here
Make it happen!
Bobby
P.S. So I've told you how to make a girl comfortable with you and I've
told you how to turn the conversation into flirtation.
Now it's time to seal the deal.
All that conversation and teasing is not worth anything unless
you can actually make a move and get that phone number or
schedule that date or get a kiss or even get her back to your
room.
So stay tuned.
P.P.S. You're not gonna find a better deal then this.
From: Bobby Rio <Bobby@tsbmagazine.com>
Date: Fri, Jul 26, 2013 at 5:33 AM
Subject: Make her want to flirt with you
Hi Bobby here again.
I hope you tried the ideas about starting up a conversation with
a hot girl that I gave you in the last email.
If you haven't yet, go read the page by my buddy Jon.
I linked to it in the last email, but I'm doing it again here
because it really goes along with the "conversation road-map" that
I've been talking about.
---> Check out Jon's page here
I want to highlight one thing that Jon teaches to his students
and writes about in his books.
It's called the law of reciprocity.
And it is a HUGE part of building rapport with a girl during your
first conversation with her.
So, the "law of reciprocity" is this: you have to give
something if you want to get something back.
In a conversation, this means you have to contribute information
as well as ask for it.
Lots of guys create a barrier between themselves and a girl
because they do not follow this "law."
Think about it.
You want the conversation to FLOW, so that it seems natural and
comfortable for both you and her.
Most guys, my past self included, think the best strategy is to
simply ask a girl a lot of questions.
But all this does is make a one-sided conversation that will
probably make her uncomfortable (She'll think: "it kinda feels
like this guy is interrogating me or something.")
Avoiding this one-sided dynamic is really simple: just make sure
that you are giving as much information as you are asking her
for.
Volunteer stuff about yourself even if she isn't asking for it;
do whatever you have to to create a balanced conversation.
You can read more about having a balanced conversation here
OK.
After she's comfortable with you, what's next?
If you've been reading my emails, you probably already know some
of my strategies for creating sexual chemistry and attraction
with girls.
Yeah, there are lots of ways to do this, but right now I want to
give you one simple but solid strategy that works in almost ANY
SITUATION.
Here it is:
Tease her.
A lot of guys stay away from teasing at first...they are too
scared that they are going to offend the girl or that she's not
going to get it.
Forget that little voice in your head that tells you not to tease
girls.
Here's why teasing works so well:
Teasing is a way to bring up the idea of you and her being
together (as in romantically or sexually) without actually saying
it straight out.
It doesn't destroy the comfort level that you have already built
up with the girl, but it directs the conversation in a
more sexual, intimate direction.
If you tease her in the right way, she'll usually respond by
flirting or teasing you back.
If she starts teasing, that is a very, very good sign.
BUT, it's important to get teasing right.
If you are too sexual or too blunt, you might scare her away.
But if you aren't obvious enough, she may miss the teasing
altogether.
Jon's $7 ebook has some great examples of exactly how to tease.
He even has a couple on his free web page.
---> You can check out the page and find a link to the ebook here
Make it happen!
Bobby
P.S. So I've told you how to make a girl comfortable with you and I've
told you how to turn the conversation into flirtation.
Now it's time to seal the deal.
All that conversation and teasing is not worth anything unless
you can actually make a move and get that phone number or
schedule that date or get a kiss or even get her back to your
room.
So stay tuned.
P.P.S. You're not gonna find a better deal then this.
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